Why I LOVE being a Camgirl

Sorry mom and dad, I love being a camgirl. Come to think of it, I remain unapologetic. A wise man named Alan Watts has many times lectured on the eternal wisdom of getting paid to play. It is the ultimate cheat code to life. If you have fun with your work and it gives you a means to survive, hell, even flourish, then you have yourself a happy little life. Not only am I paying my bills with orgasms but I get to inspire others to do the same and spread that happiness all around. I have zero guilt and shame that I carry. Guilt and shame are socialized into us, especially women and especially when it comes to sexuality. In a world of puritanical values and what many call a patriarchal society a lot of women may not feel empowered to enjoy their own sexuality let alone broadcast it on the internet for almost the whole world to see. A bit of unlearning has really benefit my life all around. When you let go of concerns of what other people may think of you, a whole world of happiness suddenly becomes available.

Contrary to what many others would assume, my sexuality does not equate my personal value. I was brought up in an environment that taught the value of a woman’s purity. The moment you gave away your virginity, your ass is done. You are now Mary Magdalene and only Jesus will love and hold you. Goodbye white picket fence! Goodbye successful doctor/lawyer/rich husband! Goodbye familial approval! And so long >:) No more do I define happiness as what other’s think it should be. I have miraculously found happiness all on my own, one webcam show at a time. I must give credit where credit is due. My customers are extraordinary gentlemen. Each day they greet me with the warmest of welcomes. I log on to gold tips oftentimes just because they appreciate my company and not because they would like a quick flash of tits or ass, though that is just fine too! Unending compliments, genuine and oftentimes silly conversation, oh and tons of naughty flirty fun. What human could say no to that?! The best part is that nobody’s life gets ruined. Nobody is breaking any laws or any homes. There is nothing desperate about this act. It really boils down to just human interaction and entertainment.

A camgirl’s job is an acting job. Much like a street performer or a dancer, a camgirl can step into a persona. My cam persona is a stronger, more confident and more dangerously seductive version of my real self. Much like Beyonce’s Sasha Fierce, Maria Lopez is an unstoppable force and loved by both men and women. Maria is a true queen and a star. It is wonderful fun being Maria. When it’s time to log off and wipe the glitter off of my eyelids I can be the most humble and unassuming of people. Though I must say Maria has taught me that it’s totally fine to be a confident and independent woman. One could say that we learn from each other. I have always been a sex positive person and interested in kink and fetish. Now I feel at home in an industry that embraces my innermost desires. It’s okay to be sexy. It’s okay to be sexual. It’s even okay to make money off of being sexy, so many other industries also have this quality though it is not so socially stigmatized. You may think of webcamming as a “hot girl job” and not a serious career or a small business, but that is the essential truth. A waitress doesn’t want to be a waitress forever (generally speaking) and they only do it for the money. Webcamming is viewed as the sexy equivalent of serving but that is not a well thought out proclamation. Camgirls come in all the body types that there are in the world, and of all ages and in poor and good health. There is a market for everyone, including pregnant and mature women. A camgirl could vary her show to satisfy a world of different fetish or a particular style. Camgirls hear me when I say that if you are getting bored with your work it is totally in your power to change your show into something more fun or something that hasn’t been done. This business is the most inclusive and flexible of all business categories available.

My greatest career fear was that I would end up locked up in a cubicle in a job with little to no creativity, and that I would always have to answer to another evil boss in the corporate world. I am a creative human and I need an outlet for all of this creativity. Before I found webcamming I was at a loss for what my career was to be. It always felt like a compromise. I figured I would always have to choose between owning my own business, having a life, having a creative job and having money. I found that for all other vocations it was pick two out of the four options. Through webcamming, I have been able to obtain all four directives with no compromises. If you are somebody sitting on the fence of whether or not to start your own webcamming business and the only thing stopping you is fear of what others will think of you… then please take a moment to reconsider that your opinion is the only one that should matter to you. Look at my life as an example of a woman who shed herself of untruths and is living her best life. Sorry I am not sorry mom and dad!

 

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