The Magic of Jerk Off Instruction (JOI)

Everybody loves masturbation and everybody loves playing games. It is no surprise to me at all the men of the world tend to really enjoy Jerk Off Instruction otherwise known as JOI. It is only meant to be a bit of sexy fun but it actually serves a few different purposes. Before we pick apart a JOI’s usefulness let’s discover what it actually is, since it is so often left up to the individual’s interpretation. A jerk off instruction is nothing more than an edging game. Edging is a term only very recently made popular and mentioned in TV and film such as Orange is the New Black and I love you Man featuring Jason Biggs. Edging is a sexual technique in which one attempts to control or delay their orgasm. This technique increases sensitivity, hardness and ultimately output. In media where edging has been mentioned it has been the punchline of a joke or something to be abhorred or confused by. Edging has a bit of bad publicity so to speak! Men have unknowingly practiced this technique for as long as sex has been around. I can’t speak for the individual but as a group men would like to last a bit longer in the bedroom. I think both parties are generally desiring a longer romp as opposed to the bitter disappointment of the two pump chump. No matter how wonderful your cock is if you can’t even last five minutes (quickie standard) you are going to leave every one of your lovers wanting for more in not a good way. If a man is feeling close to cumming he generally slows down or he strokes the middle instead of the tip or maybe even pauses for a moment altogether. Doing so ultimately provides a much more powerful orgasm after enduring such a hard tease. Edging = more fun all around! There really is no negative aspect.
What about the people who find it difficult to reach the point of orgasm? Well pull up your chair, because I used to be one of those people. USED TO! Edging was the ultimate game changer for me. Edging myself actually taught me what my body does to prepare itself for the big release. Actually trying to prevent myself from cumming worked as a reverse psychology for me and actually makes it possible to do so. *cries happy tears* Before I started camming I could count on one hand how many orgasms I have had in my entire life. Now I will have that many orgasms in one day! A healthy sex life (solo or otherwise) is a truly pervasive gift as life appears to be more satisfying all around. The shame and stigma that tends to encapsulate sex all around the world needs to melt away. Shame is a powerful motivator as it enhances roleplay and fantasy but it largely prevents a lot of people from even touching themselves in the first place let alone being intimate with other people.
What can a man expect when he approaches a camgirl for his first JOI? What I would suggest to this man is ask for what you want. Every model has a different interpretation. Every sex act has a submissive or dominant intention so a JOI can of course be approached both ways. Even a submissive act can start slow like most JOI’s do. Maybe she requests that you edge or tease your cock into almost cumming to earn every piece of clothing taken off. A dominant woman will be more demanding and offer nothing or little to you, as reward for your pleasure isn’t the true focus. You can expect vague or very detailed instructions on how to play with your cock and when. I modify the instructions to the recipient. I customize the pace to his personal desires or goals or even budget if that is what it comes down to. There is no real standard though you will find most JOI videos on Pornhub to be about 10 minutes in length. I have had a JOI last for the better part of an hour on Streamate! Everybody has different needs and capabilities so communication prior to the show will maximize the total experience. Post-JOI comments are the most rewarding to me as a cam model. It makes my day when a customer thanks me so sincerely for a truly pleasurable experience. I love my JOI fans so dearly and I hope that you one day consider yourself one! Until then happy bating 🙂

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